€200,00 EUR

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Welcome to Circling Europe!

Circling and Surrendered Leadership are practices that involve looking at and being intimate with the structures of one’s personal reality, which includes how we make sense of experience, individually and collectively. We find these practices to consistently deliver deeply meaningful experiences, and believe a few clarifications now will likely make this more accessible to you. 

Because Circling is unique, carrying over assumptions from other practices can lead to misunderstandings about who we are, what we do, and how you are invited to engage. It is our intention to make it as clear as we can what Circling is and isn’t.


  • We see you as a free agent capable of honest self-assessment and responsible choice
  • This is an invitation to take responsibility for:
    • yourself and your experience
    • choices you’re making about what you’re accepting as true and significant
    • how you’re participating in and helping to sustain your situation
    • the beliefs and choices you’re bringing to the situation (wittingly or unwittingly) that are informing your experience.
  • We refer generally to the willingness to take responsibility in these terms as “owning your experience.”

Not Psychotherapy

Circling and Surrendered Leadership as we practice them lead to transformational growth, but we do this through surrender, self-leadership, and interconnection rather than aiming for healing outcomes directly (like many modalities do). While honouring a wide variety of wisdom and psychological discernments from many schools of thought, we do not follow a therapeutic model of diagnosis and treatment. Our method is educational. Our emphasis is connection.

Circling Europe’s leaders and coaches are guides in a journey of presence, connection, and aliveness. We do not prescribe choices or actions. We do not see you as being in a therapeutic relationship with our facilitators. We work in the present moment, assuming wholeness that can include greater wholeness, exploring connection, staying mindful to notice the cost of reality choices and labels that too easily lead to misunderstanding or pathologizing. We bring a fresh set of eyes to what is happening, with the aim of understanding how updating our beliefs about what is happening can update our reality.

Circling and Surrendered Leadership:

  • Are practices of connection and meditation
  • Focus on the present moment.
  • Maintain a non-goal orientation that is encapsulated in the principle of “being with the other in their world.”

The Structure and Expectations of Leadership

You may have specific expectations about what a leader should do, or what a practice group should look like and include. We may not follow these expectations, partially because we may not know what they are (and you may not either!). Some examples are:

  • Telling people what to do
  • Stating the “right way” to act
  • Making sure everyone gets along
  • That the internal experiences of the leaders are not part of the process
  • That the leaders will provide a clear interpretation of what is happening, why it is happening and the way it is happening.                       

In lieu of these, we adhere to the precepts of “Surrendered Leadership,” inviting you to “lead” yourself in any way you feel is right for you—taking a bathroom break whenever you need, for example, asking a question—and to “lead” the group in full acknowledgement that others are practicing the same sort of self-leadership and to consider their responses as feedback to that leadership, in the context of the moment. This invitation to listen to the voice of inner direction follows the principle of “trust your experience.”

Is this Right for You?

Our workshops can be intense. People encounter places, states, emotions, beliefs, and sensations in themselves and others that are sometimes unfamiliar. We explore the unknown, the volatile, the ambiguous, as well as welcome emotions many deem as “negative” or “inappropriate” such as feelings of inadequacy, anger, sexuality, and joy. We refer to the willingness to feel difficult and uncomfortable truths as the “commitment to connection,” which of course includes a willingness to set appropriate boundaries, and speak a desire for space, distance, and non-contact. By attending our events you take responsibility for choosing to leave the practice or participate in any given moment—which might include getting intimate with these kinds of experiences.

We will often explore multiple sides of seeming opposites at once, such as independence and interdependence, chaos and order, agreement and disagreement. We believe this can reveal an underlying unity of the immediacy of experience.

If the above description of our workshops sounds potentially overwhelming or destabilizing for you, if you have mental illness or significant emotional challenges that you feel may be exacerbated by this type of transformational environment, or if you are not sure that you can be self-directed in taking care of your needs during the event, then we advise you not to enroll.

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Everyone Circled: 6 week closed group online starting on January 26

Timing of sessions:

Wednesdays January 26th - March 2nd 

  • Jan 26, 2022 19:00-21:00 CET / 13-15 EST 
  • Feb 2, 2022 19:00-21:00 CET / 13-15 EST 
  • Feb 9, 2022 19:00-21:00 CET / 13-15 EST 
  • Feb 16, 2022 19:00-21:00 CET / 13-15 EST 
  • Feb 23, 2022 19:00-21:00 CET / 13-15 EST 
  • Mar 2, 2022 19:00-21:00 CET / 13-15 EST 
In this 6 week closed group we will zoom in on the art of 'being with the other in their world' and the form it is most practiced in, the birthday circle.
Being with the other in their world is a very deep way of meeting someone exactly where they are. It's a practice of giving someone high quality attention, while exploring the nuances and depths of their in the moment experience (and your own) and going on a journey together that can reveal deeper layers of their relational patterns, life challenges, as well as their gifts, power, authentic expression and being.
People often feel deeply seen after a birthday circle like never before. It's a unique and rich experience every time. Not just for the person being circled, but for those practicing 'being with the other' as well.
When we allow our hearts and being to be impacted by the unfolding of the circlee's human-ness and innocence in a birthday circle, it's like receiving the most precious gift.
As we are invited to bring our full selves in service of connection, we, ourselves, get to discover and grow in our own leadership in being authentic, in trusting our experience and in holding someone's experience as sacred.
During the course we will explore all the nuances and building blocks of 'being with the other in their world' with pair and small group practices. We will also cover how this principle relates to the other principles of Circling.
Every participant will have the chance to receive a full 30 min birthday circle and the course is limited to 8 participants.
At least some basic Circling experience is recommended, although a strong curiosity for the program and openness to dive in will get you far as well (in case of doubt, contact me personally)

Led by:  Els Cardinaels,
Senior Leader at Circling Europe.

(Cover Art by Louis Parsons.)