• Meeting your depth as the ground of being with others. 
• Getting to the heart of what the client most wants and dreams of.
• Exploring the ‘barriers’ from the perspective of ‘Wholeness’.
• Trusting presence (truth) and connection (love).
• Remaining horizontal (on a level) with your clients.
• Thriving in the known and unknown
• Updating with the freshness and new information of every moment
• Trusting in the intelligence of life and its natural movement towards greater flourishing and wholeness.
• Able to pick up and put down multiple frameworks.

Wholeness is a state of realisation, a practice, a pointer, a paradox, a north star and a seeming reality. It can become clear to us when we discover that the parts of ourselves we thought were ‘sabotaging’, ‘acting against us’ or ‘stopping us getting what we want’, actually contain important intelligence or innocent messages from the past.

This kind of deepening helps us to see we’re more in the driver’s seat of our lives than we realise. While this can be immensely liberating, it can also be easily weaponised against ourselves or others, hence the need for a strong compassion to be fully on board with any exploration of wholeness. 

How far wholeness goes is to be discovered. How much we can be rejected by others vs how we reject ourselves, how illness shows up in our life, if we're actually willing to receive the thing we think we want on an embodied level, or asking ourselves the question ‘am I whole?’ are worthy examples of meditations on wholeness.

An element of Circling Coaching is supporting the client to see their agency where they didn’t realise they had it, and, in this way facilitating a homecoming feeling of a greater wholeness. While you may never mention wholeness to your client, it can be a continual guide to help you uncover more of who they are and who they can be.

Also being in a state of wholeness while leading allows you to be present and therefore to have greater versatility, intuition, sensitivity, and spontaneous power and leadership as a coach. 

Wholeness points to the idea that every moment holds the seeds of its liberation. Approaching our own experience and the experience of our clients in this way is the practice and opportunity of wholeness.

Wholeness, noun, the state of forming a complete and harmonious whole; unity.

• Shock, developmental and 'impact' Trauma. 
• Resourcing, pendulation and titration. 
• Working on the level of the nervous system.
• Exploring how we process and integrate traumatic experiences.
• Working on the level of attachment and individuation.
• Self parenting and taking the 3rd person perspective on the inner child.
• Integrating survival energies.
• Potential pitfalls of focusing on trauma.
• Deepening the process of integrating trauma. 

• Integrating anger.
• Setting boundaries. 
• Deeper purpose and meaning. 
• Living from surrender and aligning to the realities of life.
• Exploring and integrating traumatic experiences.
• Embodiment. 
• Connection to something greater than yourself. 
• Trans-generational influence. 
• Limitless human spirit
• Clarity of and liberation from our object relations. 
• Ability to receive. 
• Allowing our grief and emotional completion. 
• Recognising default emotions and loops driven from thoughts.
• Confronting our fear of our power and greatest gifts. 
• Understanding the main survival identifications. 
• Allowing pain - with resourcing.
• Accessing states of flow. 
• Upper limit problems.
• Ability to take space and express.
• Releasing pride and shame based identities.
• Stepping out of the drama triangle and codependency.
• Sourcing belonging from within.
• Becoming aware of our needs and leading ourselves from them.
• Knowing how much rejection is an inside job. 
• Realising “The war is over”.
• The power of willingness.
• Healthy sexuality
• Play
• Pleasure as a guide
• Containing the cycle of acting in and out
• Top down bottom up view of the self
• Knowledge of addiction

• What is Embodiment?
• Leading and experiencing embodied meditation. 
• The love of embodied practices.
• Discovering embodiment through stillness and movement and the rekindling of your native aliveness.
• What supports embodiment?
• The body keeps and is the score.
• Working directly with the body.
• Embodied self awareness and conceptual self awareness.

• Care around the pre/trans fallacy.
• Accessing the We space.
• Utilising the power of altered states.
• Ensoulment and soul listening.
• Profound meaning and openings.
• Shared resonances between you and the client being co-explored, walking each other home.
• Archetypal experience.
• Do nothing and everything will be done!
• Prayer.
• Connection to something greater.
• If two or more gather in my name.

• Comfort in ambiguity, e.g. ‘not being useful as a coach’.
• Sensitivity. 
• Thriving in the known and unknown. 
• Humility. 
• Transparency.
• Leaving room for grace.
• Loving presence.
• Willing to challenge and confront.
• Power of vulnerability. 
• A stand.
• Coaching from wonder.
• Direction.
• Using intuition and instinct.
• Spaciousness.
• Self leadership.
• Resourced and centred.
• Construct aware.
• The primitive edge of experience.

• Meeting your depth as the ground of being with others. 
• What’s suitable as a coach and a ‘natural embodiment’? - Advocating, reaching out, longing, disrupting, 'work with’, challenge, desiring, confront, care, educate, love, call out.
• Bringing your full humanness into your coaching with discernment.
• Do nothing and everything will be done!
• When you embody something they can't - there’s an opportunity to inspire and model.
• The good life - You can’t help but lead someone towards your own values.
• Shared resonance - joint connection to a theme can arise between coach and client where both get to explore without the coach letting go of their responsibility to serve the client. 
• Understanding transference and countertransference.
• Other as mirror for self.

• Accessing a greater range.
• Freeing up energy and power.
• Possibility to sense the client's shadow (light and dark).
• More integrated human being.
• Primal living.
• Existential kink.
• Shadow work for self and clients.
• The shadow exists in the body and connects to its range and alignment.
• Your un-lived life.
• The unity of light and dark.
• Becoming more whole by integrating parts.

• Creating coaching containers from Surrender.
• ‘Attracting clients’.
• Pricing.
• ‘Marketing yourself’.
• Sharing your passion.
• Telling the truth.
• Creative and clear expression linked to your gift.